BURN IT
now on presale
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A Sacred Release Ritual for Inherited Burdens
A private digital ritual experience to help you name the burden, prepare to set it down, and speak your own release with fire, water, salt, stone, earth, nourishment, and witness.
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This ritual was created from a real moment. It has been tested in a real body. It is built for the woman who is tired of carrying what was never hers.
Presale Price: $47
Your full digital ritual experience will be delivered on
Friday, July 3, 2026.
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Presale end date: Wednesday, July 1 at 11:59pm
There Are Some Relationships You Do Not Simply “Move On” From.
Especially when it is your mother.
Or your father.
Or the person who was supposed to protect you.
Or the family system that taught you to keep showing up long after the harm was named, denied, repeated, or ignored.
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Sometimes the grief is not just that they hurt you.
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It is that they never acknowledged it.
Never repaired it.
Never protected the child in you.
Never made room for the woman you had to become.
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And still, somewhere inside you, there may be a part of you holding the old agreement.
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The agreement to keep trying.
To keep explaining.
To keep hoping.
To keep proving you were worth loving differently.
But what if the agreement was already broken?
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What if you are not abandoning them?​
What if you are finally releasing what was never yours to hold?
This Is Not About Resentment.
This is not about revenge.
This is not about proving they were wrong.
This is not about becoming cruel or cold.
This is about release.
Sacred release.
Embodied release.
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A private ritual for the grief that has been too heavy, too tangled, or too dangerous to speak anywhere else.
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Because spoken words are power.
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And sometimes the truth needs somewhere sacred to land.
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Not just in your mind.
Not just in your journal.
Not just in another conversation where you have to explain why it hurt.
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Sometimes your body needs a vessel.
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FIRE
WATER
SALT
STONE
EARTH
NOURISHMENT
WITNESS
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A container strong enough to hold what you are finally ready to say.
Sometimes you need to mark the moment.
Sometimes you need to hear your own voice say:
This ends with me.
INTRODUCING
BURN IT
A Sacred Release Ritual for Inherited Burdens
Burn It is a guided digital ritual experience for Black women who are ready to release the emotional, energetic, and inherited weight that was never theirs to carry.
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This is for the part of you that knows:
I cannot keep doing this the same way.
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It is for the grief that needs a vessel.
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It is for the truth that needs your voice.
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It is for the burden your body is tired of holding.
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It is for the moment when you are ready to stop asking for permission to release what has already cost you too much.
WHAT YOU'LL RECEIVE
When you purchase Burn It: A Sacred Release Ritual for Inherited Burdens, you are purchasing a complete digital ritual experience.
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This is a presale product.
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Your full digital ritual experience will be delivered by email on
Juneteenth - Friday, June 19, 2026.
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No physical product will be shipped.
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• The Burn It Ritual Guide (Canva-designed PDF)
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Inside this guide:
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The Origin Story
The story behind why the ritual was created.
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The Element Guide
A breakdown of water, salt, fire, stone, earth, nourishment, and witness — and why each element matters in the ritual.
The “Is This Mine to Carry?” Decision Tree
A guided discernment tool to help you clarify what you are carrying, whether it belongs to you, and what may be ready to release.
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The Interactive Workbook
Prompts to help you name the person, pattern, burden, agreement, grief, body response, and desired relief.
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The Ritual Words Template
A structure to help you create your own spoken release using your own words.
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The guide helps you move from confusion into clarity, from carrying into naming, and from naming into release.
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• Before the Flame Audio (MP3 audio file)
This guided audio helps you prepare your body, breath, and nervous system before you begin writing or performing the ritual.
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You can use it before entering the workbook.
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You can use it before gathering your ritual elements.
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You can use it before speaking your ritual words aloud.
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• The Element Reference Guide (Printable PDF companion)
This printable guide gives you a simple visual reference for the ritual elements: Water. Salt. Fire. Stone. Earth. Nourishment.
Witness.
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You can print it and keep it near your ritual space as you prepare.
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• Presale-Only Surprise Bonus (Digital)
Everyone who purchases during the presale will also receive a private surprise bonus created to support them after the ritual.
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This bonus will be included with your June 19 delivery.
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CHOOSE YOUR PRESALE OPTION
Option 1:
Burn It + Ancestral Connection Meditation
For the woman who wants to reserve Burn It now and receive spiritual support immediately.
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Includes everything in Burn It Presale, plus:
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Immediate access to the Ancestral Connection Meditation
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This meditation is delivered immediately after purchase, so you have something sacred to listen to now while you wait for Burn It to arrive on Juneteenth.
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Use it to ground, connect, and feel spiritually supported as you prepare for deeper release work.
INCLUDES:
Burn It Full Value ($97)
Ancestral Connection Meditation: $27
FULL VALUE: $124
TOTAL PRESALE BUNDLE PRICE: $74
Can't wait two weeks? Get the Ancestral Connection Meditation immediately after purchase.
Option 2:
Burn It
For the woman who is ready to begin the release ritual on Juneteenth.
INCLUDES:
The Burn It Ritual Guide ($57)
Before the Flame Audio ($27)
The Element Reference Guide ($13)
Presale-Only Surprise Bonus
FULL VALUE: $97
TODAY'S PRICE: $47
The Story Behind Burn It
This ritual was born from a real moment in my own life.
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A card arrived from my mother.
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There was no mention of my daughter.
No acknowledgment of harm.
No repair.
No reckoning.
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And something in me knew:
I could not keep carrying the contract alone.
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So I created a ritual.
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I used water.
Salt.
Fire.
Stone.
Earth.
Blackberries.
My body.
My voice.
My knowing.
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There were words I spoke aloud that I did not share publicly because they were sacred to me.
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But this product does not give you my exact words.
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It helps you find your own.
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Because the power is not in copying my ritual word for word.
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The power is in hearing your own voice name what happened,
release what was never yours, and
speak the words your body has been waiting for.
What This Ritual Helps You Do.
Name what you have been carrying.
Begin to identify the burden, agreement, grief, or energetic tie that may no longer belong to you.
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Discern what is yours and what was handed to you.
Use the decision tree to get clearer about responsibility, guilt, loyalty, and release.
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Create your own spoken ritual words.
Move through prompts that help you speak from your own body, not someone else’s script.
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Prepare your body for release.
Use the guided audio and ritual elements to slow down, ground, and enter the work with care.
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Mark the moment.
Give your body, voice, and spirit a sacred way to say:
This ends with me.
How to Use This Ritual Experience
You do not have to move through this all at once.
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This guide was created to be layered.
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You can read the story first.
You can begin with the decision tree.
You can sit with the workbook slowly.
You can listen to Before the Flame before you write.
You can return to the element guide when you are preparing your ritual space.
There is no perfect way to do this.
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The suggested path is simple:
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Read the Origin Story
Begin with the story behind the ritual so you understand where this work came from.
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Move through the “Is This Mine to Carry?” Decision Tree
Use this section to clarify what you are carrying and whether it is truly yours.
Complete the Workbook Prompts
Use the questions to name the person, pattern, burden, grief, body response, and desired relief.
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Create Your Ritual Words
Use the ritual words template to shape your own spoken release.
Listen to Before the Flame
Let the audio help you settle into your body before performing the ritual.
Perform the Ritual
Move slowly. Let your body lead. Speak only what feels true.
Return Gently
After the ritual, eat, drink water, rest, wash your hands, step outside, or do whatever helps your body feel safe and present again.
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This is not a performance.
This is a sacred release.
This Is For You If...
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You are tired of carrying the emotional weight of a parent, family member,
or family system that never repaired the harm.
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You are realizing that the harm did not only happen when you were a child, it may still be happening now.
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You are grieving a mother, father, or family system that is still alive but no longer safe for you.
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You have done the therapy, the journaling, the explaining, the understanding and something in your body still needs a ritual.
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You are not looking for revenge.
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You are looking for relief.
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You want something private, sacred, self-led, and rooted in your own knowing.
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You want to stop asking:
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Am I allowed to release this?
And begin asking:
What becomes possible when I do?
This May Not Be For You If...
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You are looking for someone to tell you exactly what to do with your family.
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You want a ritual that bypasses grief.
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You are looking for a quick fix that will make the relationship stop hurting overnight.
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You are not ready to tell yourself the truth yet.
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This ritual does not force release.
It creates a container for it.
Why Juneteenth
Your full digital ritual experience will be delivered on Juneteenth - Friday, June 19, 2026.
This date is not accidental.
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Juneteenth marks the day when freedom was finally announced to the people who should have known already.
The truth had already existed.
Freedom had already been declared.
But the word had been delayed.
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Withheld.
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Kept from the people who needed it most.
This is why the date feels sacred for this work.
Because so much of this work is about the words that were withheld.
The truth that was never spoken.
The harm that was never named.
The freedom your body may not have known it was allowed to reach for.
This is why Burn It arrives on Juneteenth.
Because spoken words are power.
Because naming what happened is power.
Because telling the truth to yourself is power.
Because no more of your freedom needs to be delayed by silence.
Burn It is a ritual for no longer withholding the words from yourself.
For speaking what needs to be spoken.
For letting your voice become part of your freedom.
For remembering that release is not only something we inherit.
It is something we practice.
Frequently Asked Questions
When will I receive Burn It?
You will receive the full digital ritual experience by email on Juneteenth — Friday, June 19, 2026.
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Is this a physical product?
No. Burn It is a digital product. No physical product will be shipped.
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What format does this come in?
The Burn It Ritual Guide is a Canva-designed PDF.
Before the Flame is a downloadable MP3 audio file.
The Element Reference Guide is a printable PDF.
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What happens if I choose Burn It + Ancestral Connection Meditation?
You will receive the Ancestral Connection Meditation immediately after purchase. Your full Burn It ritual experience will still be delivered on Juneteenth.
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Do I need experience with ritual work?
No. This was created to guide you step by step.
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Do I have to use every element?
No. The guide will explain the role of each element, but you can adapt the ritual based on what you have access to and what feels safe for you.
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Is this only for releasing parents?
No. This ritual was born from my own experience with my mother, but it can support release around a parent, family member, relationship, pattern, burden, agreement, or inherited role.
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Is this therapy?
No. Burn It is a self-guided ritual experience for reflection, release, and personal spiritual practice. It is not therapy, medical care, or mental health treatment.
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Can I do this ritual more than once?
Absolutely. You can return to the guide, prompts, audio, and elements whenever you need to move through another layer of release.
You Do Not Have to Keep Carrying This Alone
You do not have to explain it perfectly.
You do not have to prove the harm was bad enough.
You do not have to wait until everyone understands.
Some burdens were handed to you before you had language.
Some contracts were signed by your survival, not your consent.
This ritual is here to help you come back to the part of you that knew:
This was never mine to carry.
Presale Price: $47
Delivered Juneteenth — Friday, June 19, 2026
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