STOP GIVING THE CONFLICT MORE OXYGEN
Bring me one active toxic or high-conflict co-parenting interaction. I will review what is happening before we meet and help you identify what actually requires your attention, what no longer deserves a response, and the clearest strategy for moving forward.
Without overexplaining, defending yourself, or spending another week second-guessing the message.
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Twenty focused minutes after I have already reviewed the situation can save you weeks of rereading messages, overexplaining, reacting, and wondering whether you handled it wrong.
Five July founding spots at $247
Future price: $497
You are not paying for 20 minutes of conversation. You are paying for the private review, pattern recognition, focused strategy, and personalized next step surrounding that conversation.
SEE. SEPARATE. CUT OFF THE OXYGEN.
You do not need another generic co-parenting tip.
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You need to see how this specific interaction is functioning, separate what actually matters from what is designed to pull you in, and choose a strategy you can follow when the pattern appears again.
SEE THE PATTERN
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Understand what is actually happening beneath the message, request, accusation, or sudden urgency.
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We will identify what the interaction is pulling you toward and where the familiar conflict loop begins.
SEPARATE WHAT MATTERS
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Determine what genuinely requires your attention, what should simply be documented, and what does not deserve a response.
Not every message carries the same weight.
CUT OFF THE OXYGEN
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Choose one clear rule, boundary, or response strategy that reduces the access, attention, and reaction keeping the conflict alive.
You leave knowing what you will do next.
HOW THE UNTOUCHABLE INTENSIVE WORKS
You will not arrive at the call and spend the first 15 minutes explaining the entire history.
I review the situation before we meet, so our time together can stay focused on what is happening now and what you need to do next.
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RESERVE YOUR INTENSIVE
Purchase one of the five July founding spots for $247.
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COMPLETE YOUR PRIVATE INTAKE
Tell me about one active co-parenting situation, submit your primary question, and upload up to 10 relevant screenshots.
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BOOK YOUR SESSION
Choose an available time for your recorded 20-minute strategy call.
Your intake must be submitted at least 48 hours before the session.
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I REVIEW THE SITUATION
Before we meet, I review your written summary and messages to identify the central pattern and the places where the conflict is pulling for your attention.
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WE BUILD YOUR STRATEGY
During the call, we clarify what actually requires a response, what does not, and the rule, boundary, or next move that will help you cut off the oxygen.
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RECEIVE YOUR ACTION PLAN
After the session, you receive your call recording, personalized Untouchable Action Recap, and Cut Off the Oxygen audio.
WHAT YOU RECEIVE
The Untouchable Intensive is more than a 20-minute call. Your situation is reviewed before we meet, so you can leave with a clear strategy instead of spending the session explaining the backstory.
THE INTENSIVE INCLUDES
​​• PRIVATE SITUATION REVIEW
I personally review your written summary and up to 10 screenshots before we meet, so our session begins with the pattern rather than the backstory.ly requires your attention, and the clearest next move.
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​​• PRIVATE SITUATION REVIEW
I personally review your written summary and up to 10 screenshots before we meet, so our session begins with the pattern rather than the backstory.
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​​​​​​​​​• RECORDED 20-MINUTE STRATEGY SESSION
A focused private session to identify what is happening, what actually requires your attention, and the clearest next move.
• PERSONALIZED UNTOUCHABLE ACTION RECAP
A written summary of the central pattern, what no longer deserves engagement, the rule or strategy you chose, and the action you will take next.
• CUT OFF THE OXYGEN AUDIO
A grounding practice to help you pause, separate urgency from importance, and return to your strategy before responding.
Future Price: $497
July Founding Rate: $247
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THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
You are navigating one active toxic or high-conflict co-parenting situation and need clarity on what to do next.
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You keep rereading one message because you cannot decide whether it deserves a response.
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You are tired of explaining yourself clearly and still being pulled into the same conflict.
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You know the interaction is doing more than communicating logistics, but you cannot fully see the pattern from inside it.
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You want to know what actually requires your attention, what should be documented, and what can be left alone.
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You are ready to stop reacting case by case and choose one rule, boundary, or strategy you can follow moving forward.
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You want focused guidance on one current situation without committing to a longer coaching container.
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BUT WHAT IF...
What if I do not know whether I should respond?
That is exactly what we will clarify. We will separate what genuinely requires your attention from what is pulling you into explanation, defense, or reaction.
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What if the situation is complicated?
The intensive focuses on one current interaction or recurring communication pattern. You do not need to explain the entire history for us to identify what is happening now.
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What if I have more than 10 screenshots?
Choose the screenshots most directly connected to the situation you want reviewed. This keeps the intensive focused and allows us to use the session for strategy rather than sorting through years of communication.
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What if I need legal advice?
The Untouchable Intensive is not legal advice or a custody evaluation. I can help you examine the communication pattern and choose a strategic response, but legal questions should be taken to a qualified attorney.
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What if 20 minutes does not feel long enough?
I review your written summary and screenshots before we meet. The session does not begin with you explaining the backstory. We begin with the pattern and use the time to decide what you will do next.
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What if I need more support afterward?
Your recording and personalized action recap will help you revisit the strategy. Ongoing support is not included, but deeper private coaching may be available if you decide you need a longer container.
WHY I CREATED THE UNTOUCHABLE INTENSIVE
For years, I learned that the hardest part of dealing with a toxic or high-conflict co-parent was not always the message itself.
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It was what happened after.
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The rereading.
The second-guessing.
The urge to explain more clearly.
The fear that silence would be used against me.
The exhaustion of trying to figure out what was reasonable inside a pattern that was never built on reason.
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What changed was learning to stop treating every interaction like a separate emergency.
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I began looking for the pattern underneath it.
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What was this person trying to pull me into?
What actually required a response?
What was only asking for my attention, access, and emotional energy?
I have seen how quickly things can shift when someone is finally able to see the pattern clearly.
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During her divorce from my ex-husband, I supported his wife as she navigated their communication. She had become deeply entangled in the thread. Every message created another question. Every response opened another door. Every attempt to clarify seemed to create more confusion. I helped her separate what was actually happening from what she was being pulled into, regain her sense of power, and move through the process with far more clarity and speed.
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That experience reinforced what I already knew:
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Sometimes the fastest way forward is not another response. It is having someone help you see the pattern you cannot see from inside it.
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That is why I created The Untouchable Intensive.
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Not with generic advice.
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Not by telling you to simply ignore everything.
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But by looking closely at one active situation, naming the pattern, and helping you choose the clearest next move.
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You do not need to keep carrying the entire interaction alone.
Founder of The Fray Alchemist
Five July founding spots at $247
Once the five founding spots are filled, future rounds will be $497.
YOU DO NOT NEED TO CARRY THIS INTO ANOTHER WEEK
You have already spent enough time rereading the message, questioning your instincts, and trying to find the perfect response.
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The Untouchable Intensive gives you one focused place to step outside the pattern, understand what is actually happening, and choose your clearest next move.
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Bring me the interaction you cannot stop second-guessing.
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Leave knowing what requires your attention, what no longer deserves access to you, and the strategy you will use to cut off the oxygen.
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Five July founding spots at $247
Once the five founding spots are filled, future rounds will be $497.